Female Domination

I have been on a bit of a femdom kick recently, and I think there is a difference when it comes to a female domme. I think I associate this with the "badness", or anti-nurturing aspect to it. I am having issues describing this theory, but it is more that in out culture and society, in the past women were more submissive or at least subjugated members who didn't really have the power.


I don't really think there should be a complete power reversal as that isn't what is needed as much as gender equality, but I think carnally that thought that she can take power over my body and make me do things is ultimately super effective and hot. There is just something on my mind about making myself serve a woman to her will and pleasure that gets me horny and makes my brain crazy!

I realize that this isn't the same for male domination, but the power and force are still there. I do enjoy both, but there are something I would rather serve a female domme for rather than a male.

Now that I have said that, don't think I won't continue to post things about hot guys dominating boys, or things of that nature, I just have moods where one thing just sticks out in my mind more...lingering until I release it.

Here is some recent fun...for now you might not be able to see it cause X-tube got word that this was flagged for copyrighted content, which is funny as this is all me, and I only made this like a week ago...both in editing and in shooting.

Pandering to the Audience

I think I started this blog more as inspiration for those that don't have outlets. When I say that, I mean mostly so people my age could check it out, jerk off, and think, "he is doing that, why can't I...?"

Since the days that I had first made posts, I have even made some that feature some porn pictures. These are some great, hot, pictures that normally go along with what I am thinking, but I have limited what I post for fear of people not looking at this blog as much as I could hope for. I realize now that I have betrayed the purpose that I had to create this, or at least partially. This next part might get a few of you...

I have a girlfriend, she is mentioned in other posts, but I also have a boyfriend. They both know about each other and I love them both and they love me. That being said, to reiterate, I like girls too.

I say the above because part of me stops myself from posting content that feature women for fear of losing my gay male followers. I realize now that it shouldn't matter as followers should be reading for what I have to think and say, as this blog is titled "A Fetish Life by kinkyboinick."

In the future you might see some femdom, which means that pictures might include women. Hopefully that doesn't scare you off as it still gets me off. And I feel that you can agree with the thoughts behind images if not the images that I post directly.

Submissive Stance - Down On All Four

There is just something in my mind that goes with my submissive nature that tells me I should be on all fours. I love being a puppy for that sort of reason, I am just in another place when I am down on my hands and knees. I was pretty horny a few times in the past two weeks and specifically had puppy type fantasies where I came from jerking off on all fours, or really three as the other hand was a little occupied. Feel free to check out the following as inspiration for your submissive...

Pictures that Describe What I am Thinking of Recently

I have really been busy with work and school that I feel like I neglect this wonderful thing and all you that read it so I am working on getting a few more things up here, the question is whether you would like them or not. But here is what I have been thinking about recently.

I was checking out a few domination blogs and the idea that someone would leave you frustrated but excites and saddens me, as I am one that loves cumming.

I feel like this is a great picture of a horny devil, and I really want to get one of those plugs someday, hot stuff!

Pretty much my submission to either my girlfriend or play buddies involves a transformation to a pup mode and I feel this describes what I end up doing, if not what my girlfriend ends up telling me to do.

I especially think this is cute as it is so true, and if you are checking this out and don't think you would, I would quest you to try being bent over for someone, either for a boy's hard cock, or the strap on of a girl.

The Grip of Power!

I was fooling around with the girlfriend recently and she hadn't had a good session of sexy time as the submissive for a while so I did my best to really get her going. Then, later in the weekend of free time, she really turned me on and we got to just some light touching and playing when I was on all fours and she grabbed a good hold on my cock and around my balls, and I just about died and went to heaven!

It was the best thing that had happened to me recently. I just felt her take control and it made me both super hard from the grab but also the meaning behind it. I have been asking her to be more dominant with me and this was really something she had done that I hadn't hinted at or told her about and it drives me wild. I think it was her natural dominant instincts taking over and I love it!

I can't wait to have some time where she is really just ready to tie me down and rough-house with me.

Adam Levine is a hottie!

Exhibit A:

Exhibit B:

Exhibit C:

I rest my case.

Coming Out Kinky - as done on xtra normal

Some pictures that have been stashed away for a rainy day...

I was tasked to look through some older pictures to show a kinky friend and I feel like I could share them as I didn't end up doing anything special with them...hope you all enjoy! They were from what I was thinking of submitting to a jockstrap contest...so nothing too special.

For those that either need this or want to enjoy it

Just a reminder to those women who would need it and read this, the rest of this is for the guys that want it...


Thanks, Ruff for finding this...

Bound Together

Don't you like seeing two (or more) boys connecting...

I really want to be put in a position while double duty gagged like the picture above, it just looks hot and fun!

My Vanity Shows Through

While checking the laundry list of blogs that I continually check out, I came across a really hot picture of a dog boy...

and this suspended dude in a harness with hot tattoos...

And then I realized that the first picture was of me, and the second shot was of my friend Cuffsman10...

So I have to say, thanks to the two blogs that I found the pics on...see below:

Master Tom

Kinkboy 

You pretty much made my day seeing those pics again....good to know other people like those kinky shots...

Tan Lines

There is something subtle about tan lines on a guy....I used to have like an obsession to find like the underwear tan lines and even tried to get the jockstrap tan when i got one, but it never worked out...sadly. Here are some hot guys with tan lines...kinky stuff!

LMFAO you are ridiculous!

Saw this posted on another blog here and just thought I would share it too. Thanks Ruff.

You might not think it is that great, but wait until about 57 seconds, and then at 1 minute and 56 seconds.

Ridiculous. That is all I can say.

On a serious not: the difference between consensual play and abuse

I saw this on Metalbond's blog and I am going to pretty much paste it directly as I think he did a great job elaborating on the topic. I think he really captured the concept and ideas.

"Guys, this is important. A lot of what is depicted on this site involves what appears to be forced action, torture, beatings and the like … but please know that everything shown here is consensual. That is, nobody depicted on this blog is getting restrained and beaten up against his will. It’s never acceptable to put a man in physical restraints against his will, or to do anything to him that he does not want to have happen.

All of the porn pictures you see here about a supposedly “straight” guy getting tricked into bondage and then mercilessly fucked, forced to suck cock and pissed on, well … as you probably know all of that is fantasy. They guy is a paid porn actor, and he wants it. That’s why every Bound Gods and Bound In Public video begins and ends with an interview with the subjects, in which they discuss this. Sure, it may look like things are getting a bit rough at times, but everyone needs to know that nobody is getting beaten up against his will.

Of course many of us fantasize about being tied up and “worked over” hard by a sadistic prison guard or military drill instructor, or doing that to another guy, and there is nothing wrong with having such interests and desires … but there is a difference between such a fantasy, and what can cross the line into actual abuse.

Personally, I have been in situations where that line has been crossed, and it is not pleasant, not hot, and it is definitely not acceptable.

Many of my more vanilla gay friends, guys who know what I am into but really don’t “get it,” if you know what I mean, sometimes crack jokes that rub me the wrong way. We’ll be at a bar or party and there will be some annoying guy, acting like a creep, and they will say something like, “why don’t you go get your gag and shut that guy up” or “he belongs locked up in your cage.”

But what I always try to explain, to make really clear to them, is that I don’t have any desire whatsoever to put my handcuffs on any guy who does not WANT that to happen. I guess I am just not wired that way.

The bottom line is that it’s OK to have a fantasy about something that is truly forced, to beat off about it while looking at porn, or even to “act out” such things in “role play” … as long as whatever you do in real life is consensual."

Hot pictures from deviantArt

I was talking to an older contact that I hadn't had the chance to talk to in a while and he shared his deviantArt page with me...

I found some pretty hot pics, check these ones out...


Gassed and Out by ~FetishLA on deviantART


Nice Butts by ~FetishLA on deviantART

Check it out, and if you like it maybe he can get some more up...he is based out of California, otherwise I would probably try to volunteer if I wasn't busy with school and life here.