Busy as hell

You know it and I know it. I have not been able to really give this thing my all since my last semester in school started in late January. I can't promise that I will have anything more to say until at least the middle of May after I get done and graduate, which is funny, as IML is also coming up then, and I hope to go again this year as I am not sure if I could make it in the future.

So if you see anything else on here, consider it an exclusive treat. On the plus side, I have gotten plenty of time with my partners and hope to spend much more with them as I love them both so very much!

I will try to get something worthy to post for you guys....eventually, but I need time.

Questions from Tublr

One of the good things from having a tumblr is that I can receive questions.

One of these pertained to how I met my boyfriend. And the asker wasn't sure if they could trust sites like Recon...

I say, trust it, but use good judgement. There are always some people out there that will take advantage of those of us that are younger or newer to the world of kink and BDSM, and in the end it is up to you to decided who and what you can trust.

I think that sites like Recon, GearFetish, or RubberZone are all useful to meet those with similar interests as you, and for sure you can form great friendships, but it isn't until you meet up and get to know someone that you can really get into if you would be compatible in a relationship.

I honestly wasn't sure if I was happy when my boyfriend first messaged me as I thought he came on a bit strong, but I was also pretty fresh and new to the idea of meeting up even just to talk about gear let alone play in it.

There are those that are persistent and those that stalk...just know where you stand so you don't get a bad reputation or come off as too pushy. New people have the right to be "flaky" if you aren't catering to their needs as they need to learn to trust people, rather than those experienced players who can judge after one conversation.

All I can say is good luck on any search for a partner, and always be patient, as sometimes you need to stop looking for it to really work out.

Pup Tail Special

I got my usual product email from Mr. S leather goods  and noticed that they are having a special on their SquarePeg pup tails! I would check it out if you have ever wanted one as they are slightly cheaper for the time! (Currently 15% off)

Click here to be taken to that page!

The Power of the Internet

Here is something that I recently saw on a photo sharing site. I can't remember if it was 9gag.com, or something similar. I saw it and immediately thought about how people get into kinks from something as innocent as a game, or in this sense, a cartoon character realizing that they might like what is happening as they play a game.

Enjoy!

Super cute, right? I am sorry if I just happened to shatter the innocence of my little ponies...but they started it!

Getting back to it

I am finally back at school and reunited with the majority of my gear. I didn't take most of it with me on break as I was going to be with my parents and family and I just didn't need them to find any of it yet.

I don't know what I will really get into yet, but I want to have some good quality gear time shortly. I had a night of fun with my boyfriend recently, and I hope for some more big plans on the horizon! Maybe some fun submissive time with my girlfriend, almost like the little time that I got over the break as a pup!

Making a Tublr

I have decided to explore the world of Tumblr. The main reason that I am doing this is to claim some of the fun pictures that are out there of me and the boyfriend playing around. I might eventually start just adding random pictures, but we will see.

If you wanted to check it out, the address is http://kinkyboinick.tumblr.com/

Whatever It Takes

I remember hating those teen romantic-comedy type movies from the 90's based on the John Hugh's stuff from the 80's. But that doesn't mean that I didn't catch them on TV or when hanging out with friends...

Some of my favorite scenes involved some of the creative humiliations in these films. Here are a few images that I recently found of one of my favorites, involving James Franco being gagged and tied to a bed at a hotel room after the Prom, where many girls and guys can see him and even end up writing all over his body with lipstick.

Her vengeance is just palpable....and he is left like this for everyone to see

Here he is later in the evening, not close to over yet.

Puppy Play with the BF (Part 2)

Here is the second part of Cuffsman10 and me playing pup time. I love him in some sexy latex too! Yummy!

Puppy Play with the BF (Part 1)

I already posted a picture of some of this session, but I thought I would re-hash it cause it was fun and I have been feeling really into my pup mindset recently.

Hope you all enjoy!

Even got to use my recently acquired helmet too!

Sexy Red Rubber!

Check out this sexy red rubber suit!

I can't wait to get my rubber gear on again...

Jock Contest 2011 Results

I don't even remember checking the end date for this anymore, but the truth of it was, my and my boyfriend's rushed entries didn't do so hot.

Here were the results as posted here.

You can see a screencap below as well.

Sadly, we didn't win this year.

We will see if there is a chance next year, but maybe we will just retire from the contest, who knows...

Back to school work for me now!

Finals Week

I will be working my ass off for the next two weeks right before the holidays, so there isn't really going to be much here except for if I take a dirty study break and decide to post something of relevance tot his blog as I feel you all would sleep after hearing of the stuff I have to finish for my classes.

If you really want I might get crazy and post that short of thing, but we will see, most likely not.

Here is to the process of wiki-segways during my writings and the problem with distractions of the entire internet with you have computer based homework to get done.

Enjoy a video from 30 Seconds to Mars that is uncensored featuring some fetish attire and directed by the pseudonym Bartholomew Cubbins, which is Jared Leto the lead singer of the group.

It wasn't bad, too bad it is like 13 minutes though...




And, cause this link might not be working, check out what I was talking about at this link here...
Stay tuned for more goodness, and if not, maybe just a shot of my ass which is working so hard...

What Guys Think About During Sex

Just something that is a bit of fun. :)



Jenna Marbles cracks me up...more here.

Fun Rubber Times at a Bar!

I have never really been to a bar in my rubber, but I was recently in Chicago and during the night that I was there the Chicago Rubbermen had their bar night so I had the chance to go with my boyfriend cuffsman10 and KinkMaven.

It was a great time! I wish I would have know a bit more about how one of these type of functions works as I wore my rubber under clothes, but not just any clothes, probably the crappiest looking clothes that I had/borrowed. I just wore a beat the hell shirt and some borrowed track pants to cover up for easy reveal. Also didn't know if there was a coat/clothes check and there was, well sort of.

I met a bunch of people, and even had some face to face time with those that I have talked to online, or seen on various sites and never thought I would get to see in such a casual setting! Even got some fun questions about my boyfriend and girlfriend...also being referred to as a unicorn about that was an interesting simile.

Thanks for the fun night to those that made it worth while! And especially to macroshea as he was the mischievous bastard that put many ice cubes down the back of my neck-entry surf suit thereby slowly freezing my butt off!

I also would like to thank some friends for allowing me to visit as they are great guys and I always have a great time! Thanks again KinkMaven and satyric78!

I can't wait to have some more gear time, but school is the silent time killer until probably Christmas time, so maybe I will get a chance to update this a few times before then. If not, maybe a bit more with cuffsman10!

Pup Play Explained by My Favorite Pup

Here is a video of my favorite pup, Derrick Paul, explaining pup play...

Jockstrap Contest 2011

I have done it again, I have entered the Jockstrap Central "Show Us Your Jock" contest again!

I have been working really hard at school, so it was a bear to find time, but I made it work right before the deadline. I even dragged my boyfriend Cuffsman10/Alpha Alpine to join this year too!

kinkyboinick (me)

Cuffsman10/Alpha Alpine

Check out the voting section for these two pictures and vote for us, and a few of the other choices you like. Or pick us and people who you don't think would win as I believe they make you pick 5 choices.

Click here to vote for us and others, the results page will show up after you have made your selections.

I will probably consider posted the few pictures that we took that we had to pick from for each of these, but we will see about that and save that for the future.

Female Domination

I have been on a bit of a femdom kick recently, and I think there is a difference when it comes to a female domme. I think I associate this with the "badness", or anti-nurturing aspect to it. I am having issues describing this theory, but it is more that in out culture and society, in the past women were more submissive or at least subjugated members who didn't really have the power.


I don't really think there should be a complete power reversal as that isn't what is needed as much as gender equality, but I think carnally that thought that she can take power over my body and make me do things is ultimately super effective and hot. There is just something on my mind about making myself serve a woman to her will and pleasure that gets me horny and makes my brain crazy!

I realize that this isn't the same for male domination, but the power and force are still there. I do enjoy both, but there are something I would rather serve a female domme for rather than a male.

Now that I have said that, don't think I won't continue to post things about hot guys dominating boys, or things of that nature, I just have moods where one thing just sticks out in my mind more...lingering until I release it.

Here is some recent fun...for now you might not be able to see it cause X-tube got word that this was flagged for copyrighted content, which is funny as this is all me, and I only made this like a week ago...both in editing and in shooting.

Pandering to the Audience

I think I started this blog more as inspiration for those that don't have outlets. When I say that, I mean mostly so people my age could check it out, jerk off, and think, "he is doing that, why can't I...?"

Since the days that I had first made posts, I have even made some that feature some porn pictures. These are some great, hot, pictures that normally go along with what I am thinking, but I have limited what I post for fear of people not looking at this blog as much as I could hope for. I realize now that I have betrayed the purpose that I had to create this, or at least partially. This next part might get a few of you...

I have a girlfriend, she is mentioned in other posts, but I also have a boyfriend. They both know about each other and I love them both and they love me. That being said, to reiterate, I like girls too.

I say the above because part of me stops myself from posting content that feature women for fear of losing my gay male followers. I realize now that it shouldn't matter as followers should be reading for what I have to think and say, as this blog is titled "A Fetish Life by kinkyboinick."

In the future you might see some femdom, which means that pictures might include women. Hopefully that doesn't scare you off as it still gets me off. And I feel that you can agree with the thoughts behind images if not the images that I post directly.

Submissive Stance - Down On All Four

There is just something in my mind that goes with my submissive nature that tells me I should be on all fours. I love being a puppy for that sort of reason, I am just in another place when I am down on my hands and knees. I was pretty horny a few times in the past two weeks and specifically had puppy type fantasies where I came from jerking off on all fours, or really three as the other hand was a little occupied. Feel free to check out the following as inspiration for your submissive...