Life Changes

There has been some major shifts in my life, and I initiated one recently. From this shift, I have told my parents that I am gay, and that I have a boyfriend. This is sort of a big deal for me, as it would be for anyone. And I am thankful that they accept me for who I am and have become. Even though I don't often see my parents as much as I used to, they are still a great support and I am not sure what I could have done to cope if they didn't understand or accept me at least this much.

I hope that everyone can reach people like how I reached my parents for guidance. If for some reason your related family can not accept you, then they don't love you like they thought or said they do, or they are just upset for not being able to comprehend the greatness that you are. Being true to yourself is what really matters, and a real family would understand that.

I hope everyone can be accepted someday, but for now, I am happy that I have earned that little bit from my parents. I can only hope that my life can continue on this path.

IML 2012 part 4

Well, this is the forth installment about my weekend, and will be the last, unless I get considerably more creative and energetic, I will just leave it at this unless that muse strikes me.

But it was really a great time, and for the rest of it was more shopping in the "mart", more great meals with people, and meeting those that I have chatted with as well as some new faces!

To describe a bit of this, I had dinner with some people that were from Florida and Colorado that I met through Fossil9. It was a great time with NateQx and FlyboyFL, let alone meet up with flabound, Mplsguy, YngMstrDetroit, and colobondage28boy.

Through the time I was placed in YngMstrDetroit's vac cube and was teased with the Venus 2000. 

Basically, I was in the position that this guy was in from one of YngMstrDetroit's videos from Xtube.

This was really a great first! I loved the encasement and restriction of the vac cube, it only makes me want to try a vac rack at some point sooner in the future, let alone being played with via the Venus, which really worked me over and got me so close to cumming many times, only to drive me overly sensitive. I didn't immediately cum from this experience, but everyone seems to love the experience like I did, even if I didn't get to completely convey how it was amazing and life altering! I enjoyed thinking about that experience the next time I got off and for future times with how much it just impacted my fetish interests!

Otherwise, the whole weekend wrapped up and I said my bittersweet goodbyes to those that I met again and for the first time as I headed back to my life in central Wisconsin and back to my job.

I will also take the time to mention that I also was privileged enough to get a handshake from Mr. "Savage Love" himself, Dan Savage! It is funny as I think he doesn't realize the impact he has had on people's lives, as his column helped me explain my fetish interests to my girlfriend and even get her to try pegging with me, which she loves as a power exchange.

IML 2012 Part 3 - Fun with Jonathan Switch

I feel that this post will just consist of the playtime I was lucky enough to have with jonathanSwitch, a youthful, attractive, former Chicago resident that moved away and returned for IML. I met him last IML, and he was just a great guy and personality and I love the energy that he gives off.

Basically, cuffsman10 arranged for Jonathan to come up for some playtime and we had fun, first with me and cuffsman10 taking control of him rather unexpectedly. It was a great spontaneous and fun time! See some of the fun picture below!

Then  jonathanSwitch turned the tables and bound me and then cuffsman10 and me together to have us get each other off, before he was on his way.

I walked around the "mart" with him later, and even met up with him during the evening to have some more fun chats. I really enjoy the contact that I can have with him, and everyone that I met at IML like him that helps make what I would consider a younger generation a better community.

Part 4 to come shortly!

IML 2012 part 2

Well, after day one which was a lot of fun attending the parties and staying up late talking in the lobby, it was time to actually look deeper into the "mart" and to take care of other meets and food times. We arranged some lunch with friends and it took us a while to find close dinning that didn't require an hour wait, but when we did we found the best place possible and had a great meal. Then shopping ensued, as cuffsman10 was on a mission for some leather items and I was still looking for some sort of rubber underwear or a jock. We found a great shirt for him, but I didn't see anything I specifically wanted.We met up with various people in the mart, which eventually lead to cuffsman10 going off to play with a new buddy CrewBiker. I was left to have fun with KinkMaven and he offered to put me in his leather straight jacket. Being that I rarely get into straight jackets, being I think one time outside of this, I jumped for the opportunity.

This continued until we all met up again and had a great night of just taking it easy and socializing, turning in earlier than previous nights, but still having a full day.

I will have a bit more to say as the days come back to me, as I know this might be out of order in turn of events, but I can't complain if it was all a great time!

IML 2012 part 1

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Side tracked by television commercial...

I caught this commercial on last night, it was pretty hot, and really makes me wish my girlfriend was here to do something similar, only sans Tequila for other sexual things...

Graduation!

I recently graduated college! It was a big step, and now I am about in the real world. I have moved in with my boyfriend and still get to see my girlfriend who intends to move in when she is done with her job!

I can't wait for us to all be together! But for now I have obtained the ever elusive job that many college graduates struggle to get, and I am not going to let them down as I work my tail off.

Besides that I got to go to IML again, and it was great, I think I am going to put up a few different posts to describe the fun activities that I was up to so some of you all know.

Back with a Vengeance!

Now that I am done with school I intend to fill you all in with what has been going on. You might ask, why now? The answer is, that I just have everything the way that I wanted it to be and just got back from my second trip to IML in Chicago. I met more people, had more fun, and have more to tell you all! But this will be written later as it is 1:15AM, and I have shit to do tomorrow as work starts shortly and I need to be ready for it all, but the weekend is looking rather open, at least enough for a post or a few!

BOUND by Fossil9: A few favorites (53 - Kinkyboinick)

Check this out as I am mentioned in a nice post on fossil9's blog, BOUND:

BOUND by Fossil9: A few favorites (53 - Kinkyboinick): These photos of  Kinkyboinick   are a few of my favorite.  In the top photo he fell asleep on a sunny Saturday afternoon while chained up ...

Stupid Real World

I just wanted to take a moment to rant to you all, if you still look at this as I know that I haven't updated it in a while, but this is really the first time that I feel that my real life has really crashed into what I normally try or at least want to do occasionally. I have been super swamped with school, which sucks, and that means no blogs, no playtime, nothing, which both gets me angry and tired fast without the reliefs that I normally get.

I can sense that my partners are understanding of the tension, but I hate not having the energy to just have a short fun tie up session with him, or a really good bondage session with her either.

Well, at least to end this rant, I will post a picture that I took a while back that I am not sure I have posted anywhere but my tumblr in a bit.

Enjoy all!

I think I posted this before...but I plan for more in the future!

Moment of Fun in a Hectic Crazy Week!

Charlize Theron's Kinky Sex Tape from Charlize Theron

Enjoy this sex tape with kinky shit in it! Ha ha!

Busy as hell

You know it and I know it. I have not been able to really give this thing my all since my last semester in school started in late January. I can't promise that I will have anything more to say until at least the middle of May after I get done and graduate, which is funny, as IML is also coming up then, and I hope to go again this year as I am not sure if I could make it in the future.

So if you see anything else on here, consider it an exclusive treat. On the plus side, I have gotten plenty of time with my partners and hope to spend much more with them as I love them both so very much!

I will try to get something worthy to post for you guys....eventually, but I need time.

Questions from Tublr

One of the good things from having a tumblr is that I can receive questions.

One of these pertained to how I met my boyfriend. And the asker wasn't sure if they could trust sites like Recon...

I say, trust it, but use good judgement. There are always some people out there that will take advantage of those of us that are younger or newer to the world of kink and BDSM, and in the end it is up to you to decided who and what you can trust.

I think that sites like Recon, GearFetish, or RubberZone are all useful to meet those with similar interests as you, and for sure you can form great friendships, but it isn't until you meet up and get to know someone that you can really get into if you would be compatible in a relationship.

I honestly wasn't sure if I was happy when my boyfriend first messaged me as I thought he came on a bit strong, but I was also pretty fresh and new to the idea of meeting up even just to talk about gear let alone play in it.

There are those that are persistent and those that stalk...just know where you stand so you don't get a bad reputation or come off as too pushy. New people have the right to be "flaky" if you aren't catering to their needs as they need to learn to trust people, rather than those experienced players who can judge after one conversation.

All I can say is good luck on any search for a partner, and always be patient, as sometimes you need to stop looking for it to really work out.

Pup Tail Special

I got my usual product email from Mr. S leather goods  and noticed that they are having a special on their SquarePeg pup tails! I would check it out if you have ever wanted one as they are slightly cheaper for the time! (Currently 15% off)

Click here to be taken to that page!

The Power of the Internet

Here is something that I recently saw on a photo sharing site. I can't remember if it was 9gag.com, or something similar. I saw it and immediately thought about how people get into kinks from something as innocent as a game, or in this sense, a cartoon character realizing that they might like what is happening as they play a game.

Enjoy!

Super cute, right? I am sorry if I just happened to shatter the innocence of my little ponies...but they started it!

Getting back to it

I am finally back at school and reunited with the majority of my gear. I didn't take most of it with me on break as I was going to be with my parents and family and I just didn't need them to find any of it yet.

I don't know what I will really get into yet, but I want to have some good quality gear time shortly. I had a night of fun with my boyfriend recently, and I hope for some more big plans on the horizon! Maybe some fun submissive time with my girlfriend, almost like the little time that I got over the break as a pup!

Making a Tublr

I have decided to explore the world of Tumblr. The main reason that I am doing this is to claim some of the fun pictures that are out there of me and the boyfriend playing around. I might eventually start just adding random pictures, but we will see.

If you wanted to check it out, the address is http://kinkyboinick.tumblr.com/

Whatever It Takes

I remember hating those teen romantic-comedy type movies from the 90's based on the John Hugh's stuff from the 80's. But that doesn't mean that I didn't catch them on TV or when hanging out with friends...

Some of my favorite scenes involved some of the creative humiliations in these films. Here are a few images that I recently found of one of my favorites, involving James Franco being gagged and tied to a bed at a hotel room after the Prom, where many girls and guys can see him and even end up writing all over his body with lipstick.

Her vengeance is just palpable....and he is left like this for everyone to see

Here he is later in the evening, not close to over yet.

Puppy Play with the BF (Part 2)

Here is the second part of Cuffsman10 and me playing pup time. I love him in some sexy latex too! Yummy!

Puppy Play with the BF (Part 1)

I already posted a picture of some of this session, but I thought I would re-hash it cause it was fun and I have been feeling really into my pup mindset recently.

Hope you all enjoy!

Even got to use my recently acquired helmet too!