So I had a great night with some friends but never really got to talk to my girlfriend like I usually do for the day and now I am just not tired and wishing that I would have gotten the time.
This is really just an issue because of her work schedule and what I was doing today, but also that I don't get to see her that often, her being in another city. I think there are times that I don't really tell her how much I miss her, but it is easier not to think about it as it just has to happen for now. At least until I can graduate and get a job so that I am settled and maybe she can move around were I would have a job as hers is a service based job that can be done almost anywhere and she has mentioned wanting to follow where I would get a job.
I guess, I will need to work on communicating better with her, but it is just something that isn't easy to admit, being that my brain has been driven to think men are the emotion-free sex, but I try more and more to communicate with her my needs, but it is easier to just say I am cool with us being apart then admitting that we both don't like what is happening...
If any of you have advice for long or any distance relationships, I would gladly like to take it.
This is really just an issue because of her work schedule and what I was doing today, but also that I don't get to see her that often, her being in another city. I think there are times that I don't really tell her how much I miss her, but it is easier not to think about it as it just has to happen for now. At least until I can graduate and get a job so that I am settled and maybe she can move around were I would have a job as hers is a service based job that can be done almost anywhere and she has mentioned wanting to follow where I would get a job.
I guess, I will need to work on communicating better with her, but it is just something that isn't easy to admit, being that my brain has been driven to think men are the emotion-free sex, but I try more and more to communicate with her my needs, but it is easier to just say I am cool with us being apart then admitting that we both don't like what is happening...
If any of you have advice for long or any distance relationships, I would gladly like to take it.
Actually it's not a piece of advice about 'long or any distance relationship', but about RESPECT: You won't get anywhere with her if you can't even consider that it might be you who could move where she lives after you graduate to find your job... Jeesh, this is 21st century for god sake!
ReplyDeleteThat isn't out of the question, but I will most likely not be able to find a job there and we both know that, so I guess I apologize for not making it specific enough.
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