Blog Description

This is really a place for me to express my kinky side to all of those that would like to partake in it. Hopefully, it gives anyone in similar situations inspiration and drive to make things happen.

I know what it was like to feel different and not to have people nearby to talk to about some of it, but eventually you encounter those that help you out and educate you on the world you want to explore. So play safe!

Sunday, June 10, 2012

Life Changes

There has been some major shifts in my life, and I initiated one recently. From this shift, I have told my parents that I am gay, and that I have a boyfriend. This is sort of a big deal for me, as it would be for anyone. And I am thankful that they accept me for who I am and have become. Even though I don't often see my parents as much as I used to, they are still a great support and I am not sure what I could have done to cope if they didn't understand or accept me at least this much.

I hope that everyone can reach people like how I reached my parents for guidance. If for some reason your related family can not accept you, then they don't love you like they thought or said they do, or they are just upset for not being able to comprehend the greatness that you are. Being true to yourself is what really matters, and a real family would understand that.

I hope everyone can be accepted someday, but for now, I am happy that I have earned that little bit from my parents. I can only hope that my life can continue on this path.

Thursday, June 7, 2012

IML 2012 part 4

Well, this is the forth installment about my weekend, and will be the last, unless I get considerably more creative and energetic, I will just leave it at this unless that muse strikes me.

But it was really a great time, and for the rest of it was more shopping in the "mart", more great meals with people, and meeting those that I have chatted with as well as some new faces!

To describe a bit of this, I had dinner with some people that were from Florida and Colorado that I met through Fossil9. It was a great time with NateQx and FlyboyFL, let alone meet up with flabound, Mplsguy, YngMstrDetroit, and colobondage28boy.

Through the time I was placed in YngMstrDetroit's vac cube and was teased with the Venus 2000. 

Basically, I was in the position that this guy was in from one of YngMstrDetroit's videos from Xtube.

This was really a great first! I loved the encasement and restriction of the vac cube, it only makes me want to try a vac rack at some point sooner in the future, let alone being played with via the Venus, which really worked me over and got me so close to cumming many times, only to drive me overly sensitive. I didn't immediately cum from this experience, but everyone seems to love the experience like I did, even if I didn't get to completely convey how it was amazing and life altering! I enjoyed thinking about that experience the next time I got off and for future times with how much it just impacted my fetish interests!

Otherwise, the whole weekend wrapped up and I said my bittersweet goodbyes to those that I met again and for the first time as I headed back to my life in central Wisconsin and back to my job.

I will also take the time to mention that I also was privileged enough to get a handshake from Mr. "Savage Love" himself, Dan Savage! It is funny as I think he doesn't realize the impact he has had on people's lives, as his column helped me explain my fetish interests to my girlfriend and even get her to try pegging with me, which she loves as a power exchange.

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

IML 2012 Part 3 - Fun with Jonathan Switch

I feel that this post will just consist of the playtime I was lucky enough to have with jonathanSwitch, a youthful, attractive, former Chicago resident that moved away and returned for IML. I met him last IML, and he was just a great guy and personality and I love the energy that he gives off.

Basically, cuffsman10 arranged for Jonathan to come up for some playtime and we had fun, first with me and cuffsman10 taking control of him rather unexpectedly. It was a great spontaneous and fun time! See some of the fun picture below!

Then  jonathanSwitch turned the tables and bound me and then cuffsman10 and me together to have us get each other off, before he was on his way.

I walked around the "mart" with him later, and even met up with him during the evening to have some more fun chats. I really enjoy the contact that I can have with him, and everyone that I met at IML like him that helps make what I would consider a younger generation a better community.

Part 4 to come shortly!

Monday, June 4, 2012

IML 2012 part 2

Well, after day one which was a lot of fun attending the parties and staying up late talking in the lobby, it was time to actually look deeper into the "mart" and to take care of other meets and food times. We arranged some lunch with friends and it took us a while to find close dinning that didn't require an hour wait, but when we did we found the best place possible and had a great meal. Then shopping ensued, as cuffsman10 was on a mission for some leather items and I was still looking for some sort of rubber underwear or a jock. We found a great shirt for him, but I didn't see anything I specifically wanted.We met up with various people in the mart, which eventually lead to cuffsman10 going off to play with a new buddy CrewBiker. I was left to have fun with KinkMaven and he offered to put me in his leather straight jacket. Being that I rarely get into straight jackets, being I think one time outside of this, I jumped for the opportunity.

This continued until we all met up again and had a great night of just taking it easy and socializing, turning in earlier than previous nights, but still having a full day.

I will have a bit more to say as the days come back to me, as I know this might be out of order in turn of events, but I can't complain if it was all a great time!

Sunday, June 3, 2012

IML 2012 part 1

There was a lot going on this year for my second IML weekend! Even though I got down there early and was checked in by noon on Friday, it still seemed to all run by me. I was in the "mart" buying new gear and socializing and almost missed time for dinner and to make it to the few events that happen on Friday that I wanted to attend. I eventually made it after a gear change to the Chicago Rubbermen party, and the Gearblast party that followed that, even running around to the other party that was going on, I think the San Francisco party, where I met a few new people and even saw people that are in BoundGods videos...which was sort of cool!

Of all that I documented via camera, I didn't get shots of my new gear, but I did get shots of my last recently purchased Invincible Rubber surf suit and some play in that!

I know some people are wondering why I don't mention the contest events, but as this is only my second IML, I still am working on making everything fall into place, let alone the cost and planning to make it to the contest. Maybe next year, or maybe at my fifth IML, we will see, but I am happy with the general socialization that I get from the people I almost never get to see in person and this is a great time for me to hang out with them, let alone have some fun playtime!

For now, enjoy these few shots while I work on what else I can recount for you all!

Saturday, June 2, 2012

Side tracked by television commercial...

I caught this commercial on last night, it was pretty hot, and really makes me wish my girlfriend was here to do something similar, only sans Tequila for other sexual things...

Friday, June 1, 2012


I recently graduated college! It was a big step, and now I am about in the real world. I have moved in with my boyfriend and still get to see my girlfriend who intends to move in when she is done with her job!

I can't wait for us to all be together! But for now I have obtained the ever elusive job that many college graduates struggle to get, and I am not going to let them down as I work my tail off.

Besides that I got to go to IML again, and it was great, I think I am going to put up a few different posts to describe the fun activities that I was up to so some of you all know.